The Subtext Water Signs Want You to Understand
Water signs’ emotions are often “accumulated through testing” (here referring to Sun, Moon, and Venus in Water signs).
💞1. “It’s okay, you don’t have to stay with me, you’re busy.”
Subtext: I want to see how long you’ll be busy. Do you miss me? Do you want to come be with me soon? If you understand Water signs, you should first reassure them, tell them how much you miss them and how you wish to be with them right away, and then speed up what you’re doing to appear in front of them as soon as possible. Instead of interpreting it positively as, “Alright, that’s considerate, I’ll take my time,” if you approach it in this “direct reading mode,” you’re not far from Water signs pushing you away. Some people think Water signs are too complicated with their indirect ways, but in fact, this is their best method of screening and gauging emotional resonance. If it’s the right person, they’ll enjoy it. The right person will naturally understand what Water signs are saying and expecting, without causing misunderstandings that might lead to disillusionment. If someone’s Sun, Moon, or Venus isn’t in a Water sign, they’ll likely struggle to deal with Water signs, and this could lead to a love-hate relationship.
💕2. “You seem tired, let’s break up.”
Subtext: Has our relationship reached its end? Are you tired? Are you still invested in this love? Will you hold onto me and tell me you can’t live without me? If you try to stop the breakup, the relationship is temporarily safe. This reassures them, and they’ll trust you a little more, allowing them to take another small step forward. This destructive testing method to test stability has become a well-known and unspoken routine among Water signs. This method only has a dramatic effect when the other person is also a Water sign—“I’m not tired, even if I am, I’ll endure. I love you willingly, I won’t leave, please don’t push me away.” Afterward, a passionate confession follows. Water signs often use a bit of drama to create precious bonding moments, and this tactic works well within Water signs themselves. Naturally, it can also work with Fire signs, who tend to be more straightforward. During such moments, Fire signs may suddenly slow down and pay attention to their lover’s eyes and expectations. However, when the other person is an Earth sign, the situation might get stuck. Earth signs will treat this as a serious matter and analyze it carefully. When receiving such a statement, they are more likely to question it or feel lost, needing time to process before giving a thoughtful response. In this process, the Water sign’s heart might have broken several times, not realizing that Earth signs are deeply considering the relationship. They’re trying to figure out how to let go, reflecting seriously on what the Water sign said, and trying to find a solution for both. If the other person is an Air sign, it’s “unlucky” for the Water sign, who will likely receive a surprisingly quick reply: “Okay” or “Hmm.” At this point, the Water sign’s heart will sink into despair, with no emotional response at all, as Air signs’ breezy answers cancel out all the love, pain, and emotional ties in an instant. But in reality, Air signs also feel bad, but they can’t understand the hidden message Water signs are sending. The word “breakup” is just as painful for Air signs as it is for Water signs, but since the Water sign suggested it, Air signs think there’s no need to stop them. They believe this is love and will respect the Water sign’s choice. However, if a Water sign’s breakup is too easy, it often means there was no love in the first place. Water signs often test by pushing others away. If someone interprets “respecting you” as the definition of love, they’re likely to miss out on the Water sign’s true needs. Water signs, whether male or female, need their partners to be more passionate and possessive. If you have a place for a Water sign in your heart, don’t just listen to what they say—close your eyes and act.
