Understanding Your Natal Chart: Why Are Your Relationships Unsuccessful?

In astrology, the planets directly associated with relationships are Venus and Mars. Therefore, their energy in your natal chart is crucial. If either planet has weak energy or forms negative aspects with other planets (especially malefics), such as oppositions (180°) or squares (90°), even strong Venus and Mars energies can be adversely affected by these interactions.

Venus Combust by the Sun

Both Venus and the Sun are benefics, and their conjunction often brings positive influences, such as popularity, favor from others, and even financial gains. However, the Sun can scorch other planets due to its intense light and heat. Combustion occurs when a planet is within 17 minutes to 8 degrees and 30 minutes of the Sun, within the same sign. In such cases, the Sun overshadows and suppresses Venus’ energy. This could manifest as secretive relationships, love triangles, or feeling restricted, pressured, or controlled by one’s partner. While these scenarios might indicate relationship struggles, they may not necessarily be problematic if the individual accepts them as normal.

Venus Square Mars

This aspect often creates emotional highs and lows in relationships. It emphasizes physical and sensory connections, leading to frequent but unstable romantic encounters. People with this aspect tend to have strong emotions that can escalate into dramatic expressions, making relationships intense and sometimes stressful for their partners. On the flip side, these individuals often possess a natural charm and an ability to manipulate others’ feelings, attracting admirers with ease. However, this attraction might stem from a desire for control rather than genuine affection. Despite these challenges, their mysterious and alluring personalities often captivate others.

Venus Square/Opposite Uranus

This aspect is strongly associated with love at first sight. Individuals with this aspect are often approachable and easygoing, at least on a superficial level. However, Uranus' influence brings fleeting emotions, causing feelings to develop quickly but fade just as fast. They might dive headfirst into relationships but struggle with long-term commitment. This aspect also emphasizes intellectual connections, which might lead to emotional distance or even infidelity if mental compatibility isn't sustained. Positive aspects elsewhere in the chart can mitigate these tendencies.

Venus Square/Opposite Neptune

This aspect reflects a tendency toward self-sacrifice in relationships. These individuals might overly depend on their partners, depleting themselves to please others. They often romanticize their actions, perceiving their sacrifices as noble when, in reality, they may be setting themselves up for exploitation. Additionally, this aspect increases the likelihood of deception, whether by lying themselves or attracting dishonest partners. On the brighter side, people with this aspect are compassionate, creative, and often artistically gifted, but their kind-hearted nature can attract partners who take advantage of them.

Venus Square/Opposite Pluto

This infamous "karmic love" aspect often results in intense and tumultuous relationships. People with this aspect may experience multiple love triangles or repeated cycles of breaking up and getting back together with their partners. Their relationships often involve power struggles, possessiveness, or deep emotional conflicts. Individuals with this aspect frequently stand out for their unique life experiences and unconventional personas, which make them exceptionally magnetic and irresistible to others. However, achieving emotional maturity in love may require enduring significant hardships and personal growth.