Behaviors that Make Relationships Worse with Earth Signs

💕"Turning Small Things into Big Issues, and Giving Up on Big Issues" Turning small things into big issues is easy to understand. It’s about blowing up minor things or events and making a scene, hoping this will get the person to offer the comfort and reassurance you want. This is actually quite common in relationships. However, for Earth signs, they may tolerate this at first, but if they endure it for too long, reaching their breaking point, and at that moment, they decide to part ways, stating they are tired and don’t want to continue, if you suddenly soften and give in, becoming humble, begging, and apologizing, Earth signs will only feel immense disgust and repulsion, with little sympathy or mercy. Even if they want to forgive you deep down, thinking about your past actions will only make them feel that since you can’t live without them, why create such emotional turmoil? You turned small issues into big ones, and constantly brought up breaking up. They might not forgive you as easily. Even if they do forgive you this time, there is a common phenomenon: they might become more distant, demanding you to listen to them more. This leads you to suppress your emotions and behave more cautiously, causing the relationship to worsen over time.

💟Too Bland and Boring The second situation is somewhat the opposite of the first—it's another emotional extreme. If you're too calm and stable, with no ups or downs, and each day feels exactly the same, Earth signs will start to feel bored. As we all know, Earth signs’ life motto tends to be practical, rational, self-controlled, stable, and unchanging. But prolonged stability makes them yearn for change and a fresh, exciting feeling. This feeling is something they hope you can bring. However, this doesn’t mean you need to meet every expectation or always follow their script. A little change, a touch of excitement in the monotony of daily life, can bring joy to their routine. If you can do that, Earth signs will be more likely to continue with you in the long term.

❣Earth Signs’ Cost-Benefit Analysis The third situation arises when your relationship has been severely damaged. Earth signs won’t think that dealing with all the trivial issues in the relationship makes the bond more precious. Instead, they will think that since there have been so many unpleasant moments, doesn’t that mean you aren’t really suited to continue? And it’s difficult to erase the past discontent and unhappiness. You’ll often find that Earth signs, when reaching key points in a relationship or facing an important outcome, like when it's time to get married, may suddenly withdraw, break up, or run away. No matter what you say, they won’t reconcile, and they may even start a new relationship. This happens because, when faced with a broken relationship or a new one, they are more likely to choose the new one.